Thats all well and good but when someone you love can be so heartless it turns your world upside down.You think that you know them inside out.It can turn out where you never knew them at all!! This is'nt a hate campaigne against men.This is people sticking up for people who have been hurt and let down.We all need support at some point in our lives.It's always nice to know people care.I agree that it should'nt rule your life but these things take time.
I'm off me soap box now,was a tad high like!!
I am not taking sides.I am just empathizing with a fellow human bein who has been s**t on from a great hight.Same as I would with anyone else about anything else they were upset about.I dont need to check anyones story,I'm not the police,lol
Thanks for all your supporting comments, which mean an awful lot to me! Flame you can live with me anytime!
Herne, I know you are a sweetie really...
I see your point hun but sometimes like the girls said, it is support you need from friends...otherwise I could not go through with it...
This is my second divorce...should have learned the first time...that divorce was nearly 3yrs of hell...I nearly had a nervous breakdown, but I managed to get through it ..that time without family and friends...
The thought of going through it all again makes me feel very low...I do not have the strength to fight...I know what it is like when the other party plays dirty...allegations of abuse etc etc...it is very ugly...I just want the situation to just go away...
I don't know what I have done wrong to either husband, when all I ever did was be faithful, loving, kind, supportive and always there for them...
Hi BK,
Sounds like you really been through it.Just try and have faith in that the truth will come out.Stand your ground and try to stay positive (easy said,i know).
Dont let them grind you down.Your better than all that.
Good luck with it all hun
herne ..voice in the wilderness,i do see your point people react on a comment without knowing the full facts and hang someone!!,but i reckon bc's a genuine girl an soundin of on here may help her feel better!and scarys had a rotten deal which she really doesnt deserve!there are some real sh..s out there women as well as men mind you!!
on this subject how much do we sow the seeds of our own unhapiness,do peeps enter a relationship with doubts because they are desperate for a man [or woman]love is blind an i feel some peeps know that there man is a rotter[or woman]but choose to ignore the faults,warnings from others, his or her's awfull history of infidelity an think things will be different with them![worst case scenario is to have a baby thinkin it will cement a relationship!!]you have to take chances in this life i guess an some work out!but with relationships time tells all dont rush into things and give them everything all at oncespecially where kids are involved ,mind yu at my age if i dont rush it'll all be over!!it is now!!
Hi TM......Yes I think you do see my point......and as for Rose and Scary oh and others for they are out there, I truly wish them all the goodness in the world and I agree that for some it may help to get things out in the open so to speak......not for one second am I saying that what the ladies say is not bona-fide but what I was saying is that how can others say for example "Have the lying scum bag" when they don't know the person...it's like your mate going to see Mark Knopfler in concert then coming back and saying "he's crap" so then others say oh yes he's crap and they have never heard of him or seen him......I hope this simile helps to outline the point I was making..and if not then I truly am sorry.
Lying under the car for two hours to change an exhaust section.....should have taken 10 mins...thanks to MG for making two header nuts inaccessible!
On the subject of the above comments........I see Hernes point and its valid, you cannot make an informed judgement without knowing both sides...yet we all judge anyway, human nature i suppose....however on this count I'm taking Rose's side purely because I don't want to be nagged to death!
I don't think at any point I was taking sides, all said to Rosie was that she should be strong and fight her corner, I have no intention of finding out the whole story as it is none of my business and purely wanted to show my supprt for a fellow member as it's not up to me to judge either side.
Hav'nt we been here before with a post made a few months ago!!!!! FFS why have a "what made you sad or unhappy today" subject if the occasional person is gonna moan about what we type when we want to get something off our chest! Chin up Rose I think most peeps are behind you. Love ya to bits. I'll come up with littlun when she is born and that'll take ya mind off things hee hee
Herne, stop bloody moaning and cheer up. No point more than one person feeling like shit about the same subject is there ya silly sod!
Happy Happy Happy
I just want to say, I believe you put a price on your head, as to the way you wish to be treated, so now I'm going to aim high, but before that I have to learn to like, love and respect myself.
I am partly to blame for the way I've been treated through my life, because I have allowed it to happen - so I'm now being myself because I've found thats the most truthful, honest way to be. If I'm not treated the way I treat others, then sorry, but their out with the rubbish. Is that harsh ?
I think we all adjust our behaviour for our partners, family or friends, when really if they truly want to be there, they will be whatever you are inside/outside.
I also agree that there are both not so nice people in both male/female, unfortunately such is life, it is always going to be a factor, we can either choose to have them in our lives or dump them. I've cleared out some 'rubbish' from mine, and it feels like a massive release. I don't regret it at all.
It is wrong to judge anyone without knowing them granted, but I know from my own experience how one of the softest, nicest people can turn into evil itself when their own selfish needs are threatened, even to their own kids health and wellbeing. Lets just say you couldnt write a script about it, I pinch myself every day, because I still don't believe its happened.
guess you really never know anyone!guess these days darby an jone types are rare as in these type of relationships one is often the dominant boring overbearing type[or a fat lazy cave man couch potato] an the other a doormat!an woman these days seem not to tolerate such behaviour!!but it can be hard on the men as we seem to have to be everything roled into one!!!
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