Today would have been someone specials 34 birthday... If the idiot hadn't of got himself killed 16 years I could could have bought him a beer.
Happy B'day Sweetheart - Miss you loads X
Bikerchick stop beating yourself up, there is a person for everyone out there, it just takes time to find your soul mate. Look at me 78 and still single. While you are putting so much emphasis on finding someone you are not paying yourself enough attention. You are a nice person and shouldn't have to settle for second best, so make time for you, start to like yourself.
I used to be like you and think what is wrong with me, why am I still single, people tell me I am a nice person. I had even been described as everyones mother and no ones lover. Then I realised the problem, I needed to be able to like me, who I am and all I have acheived and after realising all this I know feel I am an even better person with a lot more confidence. Like you I do miss the little extras that would come from being in a relationship but to be honest sometimes a nice friendship can be a better option, most think me and bluesbiker are a couple because we did go out once but we both realised that even though we spend a lot of time together a really good friendship is a better option so maybe you should increase your circle of friends and get out more with them.
You are right CG...thats why Im seeing a therapist to get my self confidence back...my friend Marilyn thinks Im brill person but needs to take more care of myself..and she is right too...of course my main priority is to get myself on two wheels...something Ive always wanted..and that is definitely for me and NOT my children!!
You and many other people here on BM are lovely people and Im blessed to have met you...that will make Ghosty reach for the sick bucket LOL!!!
Y W HarleyG
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Sad today cos doctor told me I have a nasal polyp and an allergy. No wonder the sinus tablets didn't shift the pain in my face. At this rate it would be easier to live in the pharmacy than at home!
I'm thinking of joining a band...as the maracas
I asked for a body transplant but I don't think I'll get one.
Having to wash and put my baby away for a while. As have to go earn some pennys to keep the wolves from the door.
In the grand sceme of things If thats all that has made me sad then life must be pretty good at the minute.
To all who are feeling a bit down. Hope a big silver lining comes to strangle your cloud soon
Bit sad today, following yesterdays funeral of my SIL, as her OH is taking his anger out on me, because he's annoyed she made me executor for her will, even though I didn't know anything about it!
Oooh that's a toughie Dragon... You just have to try and make allowances for grief and hope that he calms down in the end... Try to ignore anything that's said in grief stricken anger - it's not *real* anger, it's hurt... Folk lash out.
I hope it works out OK in the end... This is the sort of thing that makes family feuds if you're not careful.
Find someone you can offload to - it's really important that you do that! Otherwise, you'll probably end up hitting back and none of you will want that. Have a virtual on me xx
Dragon, you don't have to be an executor if you don't want to. I've done the probate work for my dad and also my mother in law, and if the will's fairly straightforward and you've got a clear head and the time it's no real problem, but, there's no reason why you can't pass it all over to a lawyer if you prefer. Mind you, they'll charge!
Losing me ruddy wallet with all the plastic cards in it. Just such a PITA waiting for replacements over the bank holiday weekend, to say nowt of a new wallet and the tenner inside it. Grrrrr
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