@nbc...so sorry, hun. My old mum broke her hip last October and we went through months of watching her struggle in hospital :< She did have a hip replacement but it was a waste of time as she has been wheelchair bound and incontinent ever since. Such a sad decline to watch. I sincerely hope that you don't have to go through the same with your mum and that she will soon be well enough to have the op and then to have the strength of character to persevere with all the physio afterwards. My thoughts are with you plus big virtual hugs Stay strong and should you wish to offload, please feel free to PM .
Thanks Alice, thanks Emzed, hugs are just what I need at the mo.It was so sad when I told her I was going home be back tomorrow she just held on tight to my hand just like a child does it just broke my heart! I just hope I can stay strong Alice cos I Know she cant take much more
Sorry to hear about your mum NBC, these things are heartbreaking, I look after my mum so know what its like.
I hope she will make a speedy recovery and get better soon, you will find the strength to deal with it. just keep positive.
Ollie darlin, so sorry to hear your sad news, big, huge hugs coming your and your mums way and best wishes xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Also sad with a person who has maliciously lied about BM members, and for anyone who read my thread before it was deleted, which i am also sad about as have the right to tell the truth, i have the proof on my phone from texts ok so dont ever doubt what i say!!!! There is only one big huge liar on BM and before long you will all know who!!!!
Firstly - sorry to read about your mum Nbc. I truly hope she recovers sufficiently to have it sorted out. My poor mum got sick this time last year, out of the blue, & I nursed her in her own home, until she passed away in November. Remembering her pain makes me very unhappy, but what makes me happy is that I had the opportunity to look after her and make sure her final weeks were the best possible for her and that will always make me happy on many levels.
Anyway, I digress... what made me VERY happy today were a couple of things... 1) I spent the entire day with one of my lovely female friends (been friends since 1984!) and 2) I had a message sitting in my "communicator" when I logged on!! whoop! whoop!
Shellshine, you got a bit confused there lovey, this is the unhappy thread not the smiley one.
Newbikerchick, I hope your mum's recovery is as painless as can be and that you both come thro it stronger. ATB.
Big hugs to all those who feel the need for one, myself included
Aww bless ya Shellshine, it's ok, it happens a lot, you're not on your own in the 'doh! is me' department lol. I haven't had the opportunity, in a long time, to knit a virtual blonde wig.
unfortunatley there are a lot of people on bm who tell lies,hide the truth and cause other people a lot of grief and heartache.i hve found out lately i had a very near miss with someone who has done just that and it makes me sad that these people seem to get a kick out of hurting others and it stinks
Im just a wee bit sad that i let my sadness/temper get best of me again!!! I do have a hot head and react very quickly, it saddens me as it puts me in the same league as those who offend!!!! I really gotta stop biting and let justice be done without me being involved!!!!!!!
thanks for all your well wishes and hugs really means a lot, she managed to respond today with a few words.
Shellshine sorry to hear of your mum but thanks for the comforting words x