its what made me sad today not happy Im afraid......................my partner of 14 wonderful months who I met on BM suddenly and out of the blue for no apparently good reason just announcing he wanted to be single again!!! Hit me like a supersonic flight full on, just didnt expect it or see it coming.......................dont think Ill ever understand you guys out there or what you want?.........................Venus and Mars again maybe uh lmao!!!
Sandy
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Us blokes aren't all like that! Just take a few deep breaths, smile through the pain and take each day as it comes. Make the effort to meet friends and stay with the human race...
Thanks Wills but unfortunately the few guys Ive met since Ive been single all seem to be that way unless Ive just been unlucky!!! Thought this was one was different tho (dont we all?!) just the unpredictability and shock of it all caught me unawares-all seemed so good and he confirmed that too!? weird!"? Mad/bad/sad Ive got you guys down as now I'm afraid, and most aged 40+ with more baggage on board they cant shift than British Aiways (and thats a hell of alot with the T5 cock up right now too lmao!!) I agree tho, last time I shut myself away not wanting to socialise for fear of being a goodsberry amongst the cou0les or a pain to be with, but now - Im a fully fledged biker so getting out there on my bike, planning rallies/biking events still but solo so will probably tag along with you lot instead of him instead of just meeting you all there! So, brace yourselves, Ill be around but this time, very much young (well getting on a bit now actually lol!) free and definately staying single now and proud of it lol!!!...................too much pain too much uncertainty and too much readjusting each time when with someone but ouch, \I still wish it didnt hurt so much even tho you know its not your fault and he's not worth it, it doesnt get any easier does it?!!!! Thanks for your kind wishes and words all - means alot!!
Sandy
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Discovering how fickle a certain supposive friend has turned out to be, gave them support and even lost some other friends along the way for them. Get asked my opinion and finally give it and then because its not what they wanted to hear I no longer exist. Why do people ask you what you think if they don't want to really hear what you have to say.
I don't like lies or being lied to so don't lie and if I have something to say I say it to the person.
This has hit me really hard as I don't fall out with people or do hate, lifes to short for all that.
CG, your right life is to short and honesty is always the best policy and if people can't respect you for that then they are not worthy of being your friend.
Chin up chick. x
CG, whoever the person is that you have fallen out with over this is maybe not worth worrying over in the first place! Honesty is my policy too and if someone asked for my opinion and wanted what I really thought then I too would give it. Sod em and just carry on babe. Too many fakers in this life to worry about it! xxxxxxxx
I agree with the comments above CG, I too hate liars and fakers.
Unfortunately there are too many in this world which is why I am moving to the moon at the end of this month.
well Ive met a few from Uranis I think cos they turned out to be right a...........s so perhaps the moon is a better option lmao!!! For what it's worth CG Ive been asked my honest opinion too before now and will always give it but if I think its not the answer the person wants to hear Ive also been honest and refused to give it for that reason too!! (especially if their friendship means too much to us both to lose) I've still been honest with them cos Ive told them why I wont tell them what they want to hear..................cos its lies and Im not a liar!!! Trouble is, being honest doesnt always make you popular unfortunately for me, its the only way to go hun, stick to your guns, dont change and try not to worry about it......................life's a bitch sometimes and ppl can be even worse - they never cease to surprise me.......
Sandy
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My heart was broken seeing my three girls morn for their dad today...really really bad day....wish he had thought about the hurt he has caused his girls and his own family before he chose to end his life so tradegically short...only 41yrs old.. RIP Baz
Sorry to hear about that BC. Terrible thing to happen. Thats the unfortunate thing when its the people that are left behind eh. Must admit Im due to give birth very very soon now as you know and Im really gonna miss my mum being around to meet the little. I know they wont forget their dad but it will get easier for them Im sure xxxx
Hey Rose....
Nobody knows what goes through a person's mind when they're in such desperate situations, but I'm sure your girls will have lots of happy memories of their dad, those can never be taken away.
Time's a great healer...all you can do in the meantime is be there for them, which I know u will be.
Tek care
loadsa hugs
Kaz x
You know me Rose not one for showing all the love and sympathy stuff, just want to say that my thoughts are with you and the girls and I'm sure the glue that holds you all together will give you the strength to move on. xxx
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