What made me sad today? Mmmmmm, the fact that a genuine, warm hearted, down to earth person feels the need to take time out from BM because of some back stabbing individuals (and I keep that bit clean and inoffensive !!) as I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings now would I........ Who are they to judge????
back on the old "nod" nugget again!!..... i dont nod back to every time i must admit......
the reason i dont always nod back is coz i thought the nod thing was if you kinda fancy someone... so if i nod back to someone i dont fancy i feel im giving them the wrong vibe.... if you get me!!
saying that... maybe im just an ignorant git and i best go check me "communicator" now i guess ..
ive sent messages ive had no response to, ive probably send nods too that ive had no response to.... that is cool... at least i know where i stand.... its not offensive...
Dave posted:
In essence, it seems like there are two kinds of people that come onto this site, those that are here to make new friends and join in with all this site has to offer...edited...and the people who are really only using it as a way to meet a potential partner
Dave, I joined Biker MATCH to find a life-time partner, not to make friends, but I enjoy joining in, helping Matt with the site. Trust me to be in a minority lol.
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Suzi, I'm not sure if you already know but the 'nod' used to be a 'wink' Matt changed it because the wink was misleading and caused confusion. IMHO I think the nod does the same, for some, it doesn't take much to confuse me
Yeah Sandi, I think most of us did, I certainly did! but I think it`s great if we can make a few friend along the way too. I wasn`t trying to be judgemental in my remarks, just merely pointing out that BM has two types of members.
BD-thats the only one bad thing sometimes-we all get enough shit in our own lives without being given i on here and if there's one thing i cant stand its bitching...
Lifes too bloomin short....couple of examples why we should live and let live....friend of the family's elderly mum found by carers in the morning half strangled, transferred to my hospital then blue lighted to bradford royal-she lived long enough to write the blokes name down... Would hav been grandson in law in 3 weeks and all for £350 that she was going to give them towards their wedding....unfortunately the police got to him before the family....
We all get bogged down in details and drama's but before we start spitting dummies out, getting embroiled in the he said she said just consider letting it bloomin go... BD i'm sure you've got more reason than anyone to say appreciate the life we have coz its way too bloomin short and things can change in the blink of an eye... I'm sure that those folks currently dealing with trauma's all thought they'd see them, talk to them and be with them tomorrow.... Trust me sometimes u dont wake up....
I joined this site to get a life and trust me i've found some of the funniest, kindest, nuttiest folk i now consider friends-my bloke being one of them in spite of his ability to be hard and fast asleep and unaware i could hav ransacked his house pmsl!! Its ALL about the bikes, the blasts, the booze and oh yes those bloomin god awful 'beyond roadkill' hangovers! oh and thankyou all for tolerating me pmsl xxx
Cheers Jinx, reckon your a cool doc with a prescription like that I got a bottle of Gentleman's I might have to crack open to numb the pain School night so it would have to be for medicinal purposes
People who p*** folk about! If you say you're going to do something, do it! If you're not sure, say you're not sure! If you can't, say you can't! Don't tell folk you'll do stuff or that they can do stuff and let them waste their time/ efforts, then suddenly change your mind or move the goal posts!