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Heres something that cuts me up and is unnessecary.
My mate, who works part time for me. I pay him well..

I am friends on facebook with him and his partner and friends, she was complaining on facebook about having a 'tache, I have never seen it, however I jokingly posted "viva zapata" meaning it didnt matter, however, this friend of hers, said..."why don't you f*** off"

I dont know this person, I thought my mates girl would tell her to stop being so rude, esp as I had offered to pay for private health care for their daughter just prior to this, she was 7 and very ill.

Anyway this person she sends me further emails which are insulting and aggressive, going on about men,,,all arseholes etc,,
thing is my mate doesnt do a thing to stop the shit.

When I say..err could you please tell her to stop Im told she's a nice person, but "has a real attitude problem"

I asked my friends to tell her to stop sending me emails but they "she" wouldnt, eventually she did email this person sending me emails and told her they werent happy, this resulted in a shit storm of emails to me from this weird friend.

I emailed my mates partner saying I wasnt happy about this, but got an email back saying her friend was really quite nice....

I pointed out that telling people you don;t know to f*** off and sending aggressive emails isnt in my list of nice qualities,those are qualities of an arsehole: could they tell her to stop.
She still sends emails but denies it.

Now I have commented on my friends partners girl that I hope this person gets well,,and I want nothing more to do with this, however she posts onto the site then deletes the comments, I have fallen out with my mate and the weird person who first started sending me abusive emails is on facebook saying I'm stalking her!!!!!!!!!

I cannot comment on her page but she keeps flaming me.
Extreme attention seeking but, can anyone tell me...

If, on your facebook site someone tells a stranger to f*** off, isnt it just good manners for the facebook page owner to tell the person to stop being so rude,
Isnt this just about having morals, not letting aggressive people have their way?
Also I gave them all very good Xmas presents, She says she wont give them to the kid but wont give them back.

A mountain out of a molehill, now Im told Im out of order for saying she's an arsehole when all I wanted was someone to tell the idiot to shut up and stop being abusive.

Is it ok to tell strangers to f*** off on your friends pages?
Am I over reacting to this string of abusive emails?

I have morals and no attitude problems.
Don



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don41d @ 05/01/2011 22:21  

Its out of order on both parties to be rude and not stand up to someone being rude. Its a shame your friend has let a friendship end this way but ce la vie, if anything it shows how strong a relationship he thought it was.


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coster83 @ 05/01/2011 22:56  

Don, It sounds like she is very immature and possibly attention seeking and has nothing better to do with her pathetic life. Can you not ban her from your facebook page? Its easy to be abusive hiding behind thier computer.

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Hellraiser @ 07/01/2011 00:24  

Don my attitude is that nobody on this planet apart from your Mother is worth stressing about :)

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Brummie Jackie @ 07/01/2011 09:35  

Don and Blackberry....undeserved attacks whether verbal, written or physical are totally unacceptable, and incredibly hurtful and shocking if you are the sort of person who wouldn't dream of behaving in that way. Stupid negative unhappy people target others to take out their frustrations on....You and yours have been targeted cos you have qualities that they don't possess. Don't let them change you

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Minnie the Minx @ 07/01/2011 12:41  

Don ... I agree with coster83 and Jackie ... npt worth stressing about, clearly not a great friend after all.

BB ... awww huni, thats horrid, same happened to my daughter ... cowards that they are .. and def agree, girls are def getting worse ... its a sad thing ... but true!


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rockchick123 @ 07/01/2011 15:39  

These scum don't care what effect their 5 minutes 'entertainment' has on people. 9 years ago my eldest lad and 3 mates were set on by a gang of more than 20 (so the police told me) of these scum, while they were waiting to be picked up from Hull Fair. Severe concussion, jaw broken in 4 places, cracked ribs, and eye damage followed. 2 nights in hospital, 2 further operations on his jaw and face, 4 months off school (6th form) while this was happening, so the school said don't come back you'll fail after missing so much anyway. Even after all this time and at the age of 26, he half panics in crowds, has hardly ever been in town drinking with his mates, and has never been back to the fair. The same gang (according to the cops) attacked a 52 yr old bloke and his wife the following week, he died. I'm glad Blackberry's daughter came out relatively ok, and she should count her blessings, because some of these scum just don't seem to know when to stop .

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Weirdoraptor @ 07/01/2011 17:25  

Not so much made me happy but.... letting a SBD go in the canteen and someone innocent soul getting the blame for it. Left canteen smiling with wild accusations going on behind me , tee-hee

Oops wrong thread, wow this is a sad place, TTFN

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DynaToon @ 07/01/2011 17:46  

finding out my old nemisis is going to be coming to work in the office I work in :(

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Deleted Member @ 07/01/2011 19:06  

Wishing my mum was here to see what i'm spending her money on. She'd be so proud

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darkcarnival @ 07/01/2011 19:21  

Steph she can see what your doing hun and she is proud of you whatever you do or wherever you go

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jabecs @ 07/01/2011 22:15  

I wish i was as certain as you Jan. I just hope i'm doing the right thing x

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darkcarnival @ 07/01/2011 22:55  

I know she is Steph ..... and who is stay which or what is the right or wrong way to do anything.

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jabecs @ 08/01/2011 00:48  

Started last night really...finding a Clan sticker that had been stuck to an item of clothing that I hadn't worn for a couple of months.

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bandit lover @ 08/01/2011 14:26  

Someone special planning to go on a rally without me

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Alice2 @ 08/01/2011 21:53  

Missing my Dad on his birthday today

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Sumo69 @ 09/01/2011 10:43  

Hugs Sumo xxxx

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jabecs @ 09/01/2011 10:53  

My poor old mother tearing at her skin,it's so dry and papery, what can i do??nothing helps, tried creams,antihistamines,steroid creams,emollients,bath additives,has anyone any ideas???, the doc says it's psoriasis brought on by old age,she's in tears and so am I

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Deleted Member @ 09/01/2011 12:23  

Poor thing lc. Is there any hope in looking at her diet in general ? Is she drinking enough, has she gone too low-fat?? Just a thought. Guess you will have tried homeopathic and natural products ?? Good luck...sure to be someone on here with first-hand knowledge....perhaps be best to have a separate thread??

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Alice2 @ 09/01/2011 12:59  

Tip from my dermatologist. Slather really thick with emollient and wrap in cling film. Sounds daft but it's effective. Something as old fashioned as white soft paraffin can be effective. She needs to keep it wrapped as long as she can stand it- at least half an hour.

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Minnie the Minx @ 09/01/2011 13:12  

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