BC some days we are the pigeon, some days we are the statue. Keep hoping hon', hope is ours to keep, no one can take that away from us.
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Martin I can't imagine what it's like to lose a child but I have suffered loss and depression so I know that tunnel seems awfully long right now but keep going hon' it may not end but it does get brighter. The secret is to celebrate your daughter's life, not mourn her death. (soz, I don't mean to sound clichéd)
Huge ((((hugs)))) for BC and Martin
thanks cassie1966 and that was nice kwak thanks. me and my other two girls are always having a good laugh at leannes expens. i have put a couple of pics on my profile, if you want a look.
Nice pictures. There's nothing I can say that will ease the pain of losing your daughter, but eventually, with the support of the rest of your family, you will learn to live with the emotional scars, I know. You're not the only one, though it may not feel like it, and I know of at least one other subscriber to this forum who's been through the pain of losing a child and, although she feels it deeply, can now look the world in the face with confidence and good humour.
But it does take time.
Awww Martin I know how you feel I lost my son 8 years ago today (he was 25) and I went up to the cemetry alone, its a long trek from Southampton to Kent and I couldn't help the tears.
Hun it will get easier you 'come to terms' but never forget and as long as you have great memories you have been blessed having them in your life for any length of time. One thing I will say to you is DON'T EVER EVER HOLD BACK THE TEARS. If you need to cry just do it wherever you are. Talk to people about her it really really helps. I didn't and carried on although my heart was broken, but ended up almost having a breakdown I had 4 mths off work but that was AFTER 3years!!!!
But big going out to you I know exactly how you are feeling.
Take care Love Mazza xxxxxxx
thanks mazza, i'm sorry to hear about your son. i have cried with some of the massages i have receved thay have been great, thanks again and he is always with you in spirit. big to you and you take care too, martin x x x x
Reading that Heath Ledger (Brokeback Mountain, The Patriot...) had been found dead earlier this evening. A young actor with a lot in front of him, but alas no more. RIP
Martin, hope you didnt mind the personal message. You seem a lovely fella and I totally agree with your reply, they are always there watching and keeping an eye on us.
As for what's made me sad or unhappy today.......
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
Life is on the up for me (no going back) so all you sad people dont worry, things dont get forgotten they just get easier to deal with. Chin up everyone.
Big cuddles for everyone Kerry XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Thanks Kwak hun for your message of support it means a hell of a lot to me at the moment...bless you hun
Martin2452, welcome to the site. I am at a lost of what to say to you...I cannot ever imagine what you and Mazza are and having been through...its a scenario I pray and hope that I do not have to deal with. I am so glad that you have a laugh and remember Leanne in such a lovely way. I have lost an awful lot of cousins to hereditary breast/ovarian cancer in the last few years...nearly a whole generation of women in our family have been wiped out...the losses dont come any easier...I just always think of them as they were and often laugh out loud when memories come flooding back...they live with me here on this plane in my thoughts and in my heart...bless you Martin and Mazza...my thoughts and prayers are with you always...lots of hugs and love Rose XXXX
Just been reading some of the earlier posts, and I'm moved to tears!! Makes you realise no matter how crappy your day is, or has been, you are so lucky in other respects.... Its my daughters 5th Birthday today, and I feel so lucky and pirviledged that I can have her here with me and cuddle up to her.
Love to all of you
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