knowing someone i really care about is happy to sleep with someone else but not me and lost a friend in the process. being a nice guy counts for nothing these days
tell me about it it is nice to be just walked away from with no contact at all.i have had my fill of shite men who walk all over my feelings and treat me like i dont matter.life is total pants and wish it would just go away
Hugs to you both. Been there very recently. Like i say it never rains but it pours. Hurts to know the truth to. Still believe there are some nice men out there. Just don't want to know anymore. Much love to you both and take comfort in the fact that you have friends on here. There will be men and women on this site who would hate to hear this and never treat someone like that.. as well as others that do. Not gender specific on here.
thanx hurtz i want to believe that theres a good bloke out there for me.just finding it very hard at the moment.i have been through the wars over the last two years and have come out the other side only for this to happen.and my faith is starting to wane a little at the mo.dont want much in life just to be loved lol
Hang in there ZZR, yeah there are alot out there (of both sexes) but some diamonds too. Unfortunatly, just like real diamonds, they take alot of finding.
Have to admit, 5 years back I crapped on a woman who deserved a helluva lot better and left her alone, and of course last year 'what goes around comes around'. I had my my heart ripped out by a woman that meant everything to me, who I'd relocated 150 miles for, and now I'm trying to pick up the pieces. Seen it from both sides now and yeah, it can be a real combat zone out there (only the gods know why that has to be the case) but what can you do? The important thing is not to give up on everybody just because some insist on acting like a***holes.
thanx for that centurian.i know im no angel i dont think any of us have a totally clean track record.but i have never just walked away and totally ignored someone thats just low in my books.and i havnt totally given up.as my mum used to say bless her "you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince" and boy was she right lol
I guess you're not on here for the dating then Busafeller?
I'd rather have the pile of dung, if it gives me the chance to have the feeling of being in love, than never to know what it feels like to love someone. Once you experience it it's a wonderful feeling, especially if the feeling is mutual, and broken hearts do mend, if we let them.
yes sandi they do eventually but mine is starting to give up the ghost.and theres only so many plasters in the world and i have so many scars ive lost count of them.i wasnt put on this planet to be a punchbag for moronic ignorant a***oles.but as they say what goes around comes around lol and as long as ive got my bike and my mates then i will carry on because the feeling of being wanted and loved is fab and i want to have fun with someone i am angry and fed up at mo but it will pass and then i will be my normal happy self again
Don't let life beat you zzr, you are too young to be unhappy, last sunday you looked fine, a normal lady enjoying a day out. Sorry I never got a chance to chat with you.
zzr you are worth more than that, there is no reason at all for ignorance I hope there is a good reason or explanation but if not.....
Dont let the treatment of others define you.
I gave up on relationships a long time ago and wondered away from this site too, but hey it gets lonely at times :) I've been held together by a thread because of others treatment or circumstances but y'know if some people dont want to talk to you / see you/ get to know you then they have the problem , not you.
I ran out of plasters too , reverted to sellotape then masking tape to hold me together
thanx feylin i know your right as is everyone else like i said to a mate yesterday his loss.i am just going to pick up and carry on.got my sexy bike and lots of new mates so hell who gives toss.i am worth more than the ignorance so with that in mind anyone fancy a blast out on the bikes give me a shout cos im out to party from now
thanx penny i have decided today that is it am not going to worry anymore i have more friends from being on here and everyone is so supportive.i am better off with friends like you guys and one day will be happy with someone till then its party time for me
Subject: What made you sad or unhappy today?
Well...most times i'd say 'me' but realise that what i do, what i say, how i say it, how i react, what i need, what i ask for, what i give and what i take (among a lot of other things not mentioned) are products created through the filters of my fifty years of life.
There are causes and reactions, both build filters that my spirit, my personality, my light, all filter through. Much of my life chose me, i've been quite complacent through my life and that i really regret.
Sadness and happiness are an allusion, they are the product after the filters and not before. Either define the other and are equally required to hold the balance between both.
I find my greatest sadness and greatest happiness paradoxically entwined within emotions gathered before the filters of my life sanitise them, for my own protection.
I find the question that is greatest in my life is not what makes me happy or sad but what in it's/their components embrace my emotions, my spirit and are invisible to the hovering need of those filters to protect me.
I'm thinking allowed here and am more than sure there's a flaming coming but, just remember before you do...it takes all to make a world.
Icey friendly love and hugs to all. May your filters be strong but your emotional need to not use them stronger...
..icey
There see zzrbabe.. just when you thought you had problems ..
iceybusa .. deep as the ocean blue.. BM's 21st Century Shakespeare.. I think you're great!
Life is FAR TOO SHORT for regrets
You CANNOT change the past
You can enjoy the PRESENT
Be hopeful for the FUTURE
Today is yesterday's dream for tomorrow
So make today, everything you hoped that it would be yesterday
PS :- I use gaffa tape now Feylin, semi-permanent repair
[quote] iceybusa .. deep as the ocean blue.. BM's 21st Century Shakespeare.. I think you're great! [/quote]
Appreciated. Thank you very much indeed Penny.
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