Awwww huge hugs all round for those that need them
Boss mum-folks can only bother u as much as u let them hunny- smile and nod and think 'git' and walk away-horrible folk always have a fab habit of showing their true colours to all eventually so sit back and watch it all unfurl coz sometimes saying nothing and doing nothing is all u need to do xxx
Feeling that some people really do need to GET A GRIP & keep their own nasty little comments to themselves, some people just have to put others down & it really is annoying.
Hearing a friend is havin a tough time at the moment with her son and if thats not enough to contend with him having autism dirty scum bags in the street thinking it nice to spit and shout at her about it. People can be so disqusting at times. This world we live in so not good.
ah that aint right Melie chick .... soz to hear that... i agree there are some total scumbags in this world and unfortunately it seems that manners and kindness are no longer aspired to but are looked down on as weakness by a lot of the retards out there.....too many peeps want to tear a strip off others instead of helping each other and showing love and kindness xx to your friend and her son xx
One of those bizzare Sunday afternoon's. Chilling at home todaay, I heard my back door open, on hearing no noise, or voice I went to take a look.. There was a child, approx 2yrs old, stood in my kitchen in his bare feet, wearing only a nappy. I had never seen him before and I did not recognise him at all. I was taken a back tto say the least. I tried talking to him, but he wasn't able to answer. I picked him up and walked outside. I live on a main road with a side street adjoining and I could not understand why there was no-one out looking for him. I asked him to point where mummy was. He pointed across the road. I was fretting inside and there was a bitterly cold wind blowing. I did not want to carry him around like that, so I took him back indoors to get him a blanket. I stood him in the hall way and ran upstairs to grab a blanket and jacket. When I got down, he had gone. OMG! The door was still a jar (how sh1t do I feel). I ran back outside and stopped a passer by with her daughter and asked if they had seen the child, but to no avail. A young girl of around 8yrs passed by and I asked her the same. She had seen him in the road minutes before. As kids go, they don't stop to ask questions. So we all take a direction each and carried on the search. The younger kids had soon got the word around and within minutes there were children and neighbours out searching the streets for a toddler in a nappy. This went on for half hour or more. The onus was now on me to ring the police (suck fake).. Thankfully a neighbour knocked on to say that the same boy was seen in the doorway of a neighbouring house by one of the kids. Thankfully he had found his way back in one piece. On informing mum, there seemed little if any concern. Get this for a reply.. 'He must have nipped out'.. It beggars belief. . but if nothing else, the local kids made me smile, as they were like little miss marples and inspector morses all over the place. It was nice to have that support even though mum did not appear to appreciate the efforts made in knowing her son was safe.
Bad Penny, That is incredible how a mother cannot be concerned out her little'n. Most mothers would died before that sort of thing happened. The child was lucky to find you, it could have been the wrong sort of person. It was fantastic to have a bunch of good spirited kids to help
There was a point when I actually questioned my own sanity .. a child appeared from nowhere and disappeared just as quick. I will never know how he managed it, but he just vanished. Its not easy being a parent/ guardian, esp with young children, infact its probably the hardest job in the world. I know how easy it is for the unexpected to happen and it does.. peace & calm one minute and pure bedlam the next. There just appears to be a blase, what's the fuss? what's the problem? attitude about things in general and it has me thinking , is it me? ..
I agree about the blocking of members for no reason.. Its only on sending or replying to a message that you realise you've been barred? ..
It's not you Bad Penny, unfortunately there are parents around who do not consider their kids safety enough. Also young kids have got an uncany habit of just walking off without you noticing. It has happened to me twice with my kids while out shopping. They were there next to me one minute and within just a few seconds of me looking at something, they had walked off. For me panick set in looking for them, but luckily I found them quickly, panic over.
It's like the parents that smoke in their car with kids in there, or swear badly in front of their kids, smoke joints freely, get rolling drunk when they are supposed to be looking after little ones...... like you say, you start to think "is it me?" because it seems to be everywhere nowadays.
I'm gradually losing my eldest daughter at 14 who seems to think it's OK to have zero respect for anyone - that's not the way she was brought up but it's all around her with her friends and their parents and she just thinks I'm too over the top/prudish/old fashioned in my attitudes. I think I'm at the stage of praying for a miracle to keep her safe and out of trouble - either that or a very heavy steel door on her bedroom and bars on the windows. She's a good kid, beautiful, intelligent etc. and it's frustrating not being able to get through to her :(
ooooo boss mum .... mine is 17 and she can be the nicest kid going .. but ... we should have a chat ;). we just can't give up on em.... and we won't ......... Hope is gets better x
Vanessa, My daughter was like that at the same age and it was worrying for me and her mum, but she got through it. Often there is very little you can do because you can't be with them all the time. Coming down hard on them more often than not has a negative effect. My kids have always been basically good at heart and that helps.
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