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Big Fred
In: Romford, Essex
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You hit the nail bang on the head Alice.
I loved her her more than anyone else in my life but she did tell me she did love me but not enough or as much as I her.
To be totally honest fair and up-front, she told me from the beginning of our relationship it was not what she wanted and that is why it was to be kept hidden from our friends and her work mates.

It is for this reason I added to this thread and started the other one " We can still be friends though?" I don't think she has told her new husband about our relationship and I doubt that she will tell him she visited me today but that is up to her of course.

I had got to grips with the fact things were over between us summer last year but but I now have to get to grips with this again.
For me I feel it best not to have any contact, well not for a while if at all Maybe in time things will be different.

I am trying to understand if the way I am going about this is the right way and welcome the views of those willing to offer them, even though I may not agree or like some of them. It not a case of "Oh well move on" or "Forget her Fred"

Thanks again and I apprciate the x

You hit the nail bang on the head Alice.
I loved her her more than anyone else in my life but she did tell me she did love me but not enough or as much as I her. 
To be totally honest fair and up-front, she told me from the beginning of our relationship it was not what she wanted and that is why it was to be kept hidden from our friends and her work mates.

It is for this reason  I added to this thread and started the other one " We can still be friends though?" I don't think she has told her new husband about our relationship and I doubt that she will tell him she visited me today but that is up to her of course.

I had got to grips with the fact things were over between us summer last year but but I now have to get to grips with this again.  
For me I feel it best not to have any contact, well not for a while if at all  Maybe in time things will be different.

I am trying to understand if the way I am going about this is the right way and welcome the views of those willing to offer them, even though I may not agree or like some of them. It not a case of "Oh well move on" or "Forget her Fred"

Thanks again and I apprciate the  x

Big Fred @ 10/01/2012 17:59

Deleted User
In: NA
Posts: 6852
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Booking 10 x 60 min 'fitness boot camp' lessons with the girls from work as I have not done anything since Aug ... just keep telling self ... it will be worth it in the end ...
it will be worth it in the end ...
it will be worth it in the end ...
it will be worth it in the end ...

It BETTER BE!!!!

Deleted User @ 11/01/2012 22:24

bomb doctor
In: Cheshire
Posts: 1854
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PMA Shell, you'll fell better at the end you'll only get out of it what you put in

bomb doctor @ 12/01/2012 02:34

feistygirl
In: Rochdale
Posts: 1228
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@ Fred

If you have to hide a relationship from your friends then imho it's off to a bad start, you should be able to shout it from the rooftops not hide it away.

Good on her though that she had enough respect for you to tell you herself that she is pregnant rather than you find out from someone else.

You can be friends with ex's but at what level is down to you. If you are doing it in the hope of a revival of a past relationship then really you should walk away and move on, you are just hurting yourself more.

There will be a perfect lady out there for you, you just have to give it time

feistygirl @ 12/01/2012 09:42

Brummie Jackie
In: Hobbit HQ
Posts: 20716
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I echo what Feisty said and wish you all the best Fred xx

Brummie Jackie @ 12/01/2012 10:10

Deleted Member
In: NA
Posts: 0
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Thinking about my forfeit BJ has come up with

Deleted Member @ 12/01/2012 11:15

feistygirl
In: Rochdale
Posts: 1228
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BJ's reply to the picture i sent her

feistygirl @ 12/01/2012 19:05

Deleted User
In: NA
Posts: 6852
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LOL thanks BD ... if you dont see me about after next Tuesday ... you know I didnt survive lol

Deleted User @ 12/01/2012 20:12

W.M.F.
In: Ashford
Posts: 546
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Receiving a phone call to say that my uncle had an operation today to remove his leg, but due to complications may not survive.

W.M.F. @ 12/01/2012 21:46

feistygirl
In: Rochdale
Posts: 1228
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Some not so good news from a friend

feistygirl @ 12/01/2012 21:57

Brummie Jackie
In: Hobbit HQ
Posts: 20716
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Feisty i sent you the wrong one lol

Brummie Jackie @ 12/01/2012 22:47

Alice2
In: York
Posts: 2585
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WMF...sad news, hun. Glad you have someone special to support you.

Alice2 @ 12/01/2012 22:59

W.M.F.
In: Ashford
Posts: 546
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Thanks Alice.

W.M.F. @ 12/01/2012 23:03

Nutkin68
In: Hull
Posts: 4203
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Reading about RC's sad news on here

Nutkin68 @ 13/01/2012 00:20

Deleted Member
In: NA
Posts: 0
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Winter blues getting me down its bad news after bad news
what a year this is going to be down hill all the way :(

feeling l have let a very good friend down :(

Deleted Member @ 13/01/2012 08:32

lawnmower
In: Nirvana
Posts: 135
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Pesky cats got a Blackbird (of the feathered variety). Right mess on the patio.

lawnmower @ 13/01/2012 10:38

justjerry
In: The Lizard
Posts: 2505
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Half hour coffee break in waterstones with a good book.... bliss

Don't know why a coffee in a book shop is better than any other but it works for me

justjerry @ 14/01/2012 17:42

Deleted User
In: NA
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Being so cold I am in pain, even with the heating on, and the meds for it are not working :-(

Deleted User @ 14/01/2012 18:24

W.M.F.
In: Ashford
Posts: 546
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Receiving the news this morning that my uncle passed away in the early hours. RIP Uncle Brian. xxx

W.M.F. @ 14/01/2012 22:02

W.M.F.
In: Ashford
Posts: 546
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Oh, and having to say goodbye to the love of my life after a brill time out (for the second day running!)

W.M.F. @ 14/01/2012 22:04

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