Is it possible for friends/neighbours to pop in to see her or walk her. You can get dog sitters/walkers if you have any in your area if it's financially an option?
They've altered round work duties today, so I now get to rightly do the work I'm supposed to for the Obstetrics Secretaries, while another girl who is only 21 gets to do her Gynaecology Secretaries work.
I can't put any holidays in till the end of next month, and the other girl knew about my holidays which are mainly fridays, for going to rallys and weekends away with my hairy hunk.
Rightly enough I'm not allowed to take any holidays as the other girl, and vice versa, but she has now decided to kick up a major fuss, sayings its not fair that I'm taking these 8 days holiday, when she MAY want them, and won't know she will want them until the same week that she does want them.
It's seriously narking me that I am very flexible but I now have to feel guilty for taking these few days off, which are now set cause Bryan has now booked and paid for the tickets.
I'm a nice person and will negotiate no problem, but I'm really narked that I am made to feel like a selfish sod, I'm not negotiating these days my manager said I wont need to specially as how they're all prebooked anyways.
Some pple do my head in.
ok nuff windging sorry
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#1..... Knowing ive been used as a pawn in someone elses game
#2 ....A series of agressive calls & abusive texts from someone i classed as a friend
#3 ....Knowing its another feb where i wont be getting a card on the 14th
#4.... Missing the people in my life who i know genuinely cared
#5 ....Not feeling well enough to drag the bike out & blow all this stuff from my mind
Hugs to all those that need them
Keep the faith..
.for every ONE person thats P***ed you off...there's plenty more (on here or otherwise) that will make you smile.
Flettie, like Lonerider says, can you get someone to help you out? I know only too well what its like to lose a faithful friend, although mine has gone forever.
xxxxxx
Flettie I had the same problem but an oap from up the road walks my two, only a little trip round the field and back or out into the garden and in return all he wants is a trip to morrisons to get his shopping
Scooby - i know how you feel but dont dwell on it
what made me sad... my friend had some bad news yesterday and she's not a happy girl
Gutted, heard today that someone I thought was a mate has been making up stories - why can't people just get on with thier own lives and stop trying to around with other peoples.
Scooby, my mum told me this once many years ago when I felt everything was falling apart "this to shall pass" hope it does quickly for you mate. Lots of people care about you, Boody giving you one of her ears and you can have one of mine anytime bud if you need a natter
Finding out my daughter got beaten up last night by the person she works for after trying to help her get home coz she was pi55ed up. This girl has beaten Lucy up with one of her crutches. She's now covered in bruises, in pain and obviously lost her job as a carer for this woman and her child. This other girl is using her "disability" as an excuse.
My daughter also has some mental health problems and trying to cope with this and also caring for this woman. Sometimes I wish she was a baby again and I could just kiss it all better
it's hard being a mum at times. no matter how old they get, they're still your babies
So sorry HRC. I don't think I would be able to control my temper and restrain myself from kicking her crutches out from underneath her had my daughter been beaten up!!!!!! Grrrrrr
I'm in Manchester, daughter is in Derby, so can't really nip round and do anything but she's ok. She's given a statement to the police so it's wait and see but now she's worried she won't get her wages for the last month
Ooooh...I pick up the mega-anxiety vibes here !! ( Lots of practise !!)
If she's living away from home HRC..then she's at the stage of breaking the ties but needing her mum !! Nothing worse for you!! Suggest lots of wine, breathe deeply and remember that you have given her all she needs to cope with this. She WILL make all the right decisions ..because YOU have taught her well!! Good l uck and