D'yer know what JJ,I was just thinking the same.If you were doing a CV and presented it ,you wouldn't even get a look in....what makes you think 'tell you later' makes anybody think 'OOH,you're interesting,MUST PM him/her'.Good grief,if you can't be bothered,don't bother
i could go on and on but yes you are both right, why bother joining a dating/ social site and not try to promote yourself, then there are the ones who say... dont be shy, get in touch,.... why expect everyone else to make the first move, and dont get me started on spelling mistakes, i know we all do it now and again, and where are the photos, it all works both ways
puds, with two sons who play football and have accidents the only solution is patience. u just have to put your confidence in the people who know what they are doing, and they do, it does not mean that u dont worry, but they know better than u, dont they? have been in the same situation myself and words dont help when u dont know whats wrong with your siblings. hope everthing goes ok.whf.