It has nothing to do with being a goody goody XK, you have made sexual references to 2 female members with absolutely no grounds to do so. I love a good bit of 'banter' with people I know very well and do get very near the knuckle, but then I am not site staff that has to look out for the image of the site. People don't post because if they are female they are probably wary of being harrassed by the likes of you!
I won't pm you, having already blocked you at the beginning of this year. My opinion is one I stand by, you are a bully, picking mostly on the females and you have gotten more insulting recently. You just don't like being pulled about it, hence the self righteousness comment.
There is friendly banter and then there is the level you take it to.
I do not harass anyone. This would involve a continuation. I made a simple jokey comment and am getting dragged over the coals for it. If Joey requires an apology, she needs but ask.
Why wait for a request? why in fact get yourself in a position that you might have to appologise? It is quite evident from Joey's reply that she wasn't exactly appreciative of your comment. Your attitude towards women on here does leave a lot to be desired.
Yes PB I'm ok just me being a dick head trying to carry laptop all my stuff for the weekend my phone bike boots and shoes anything to save me going back lol thanks for asking or was it you were worried if I had injured myself you wouldn't be able to slap me next time you see me .
Yes laptop is fine it just thought I was rebooting it or giving it an upgrade. The last time I fell down the stairs a certain young lady had a good laugh before asking if I was ok but laughing is the best medicine so I've been told
To all who are giving XK a roasting over some of his comments... I am one of those "females" that XK has been accused of harrassing. Someone, apparently on "my" behalf, has reported XK for an exchange between us that involved the word "shag". I would like to clarify that I didn't ask anyone to report XK on my behalf, as I am an adult and know when banter is banter and when someone is being totally out of order. Yes, XK does have slightly left-field sense of humour but he's not a bully (and I've met a few of them in the past believe me). If you don't like his humour then don't talk to him its as simple as that and, from a personal point of view, if I had wanted to report XK I would have done it myself and would have appreciated whoever did report XK on "my" behalf to have contacted me first to actually see if I was offended in the first place! At the end of the day this is an adult site, there are far worse people on here but others, like XK, are just people who like to banter and are harmless. JC
Debated a while before posting this as I hate 'public' disagreements on social media... but had to chime in too on XK's behalf.
Someone reported XK on 'my' behalf also for a 'frisk' comment he made in the KISS thread. I too like Julia was NOT offended in any way by his comment, if I was I would have taken it up with him privately and not got into a 'public' spat with him (although I would have said first on thread I wasn't happy with remark then a PM to tell him to wise up!). Whoever reported him should have spoke to me first and not assumed that I was offended by his remarks,believe me it takes a lot to offend me
XK has been nothing but nice to me since I have been on this site (a long time) and is always a gentleman in the PMs we have had.
If you don't like someone's posts or comments simply skip reading them. If they offend you report them then ignore them don't get into a 'flaming' situation in public, it brings the site down.
Oh and please contact me first via PM to see if I am offended by anything anyone says before reporting them, but then again I am capable of tackling someone who offends me by myself trust me
JC, you may not have taken offense at XK's remark but a lot of other women would have. BM has a lot of members, but a lot are seldom seen in the forums and most are never seen in chat. I am no angel when it comes to making comments about women that I am friendly with, on social networks that are very public and open, and generally in response to something they have themselves posted. I wouldn't, however, make a comment about what a couple get up before parting for any length of time, especially when the guy has thoughtfully ridden over 400 miles on a round trip to spend what little quality time he could with someone he obviously thinks highly of. Joey's response to XK's post was definitely a negative one and got responses from several people, not just me. It is ill thought out comments like that, that will prevent solo women from wanting to attend events arranged via BM, and could possibly influence them not to renew subscriptions in the future.
Glad you didn't injure yourself JP, it is bad enough we have to endure the saga of the shoulder, we couldn't be expected to have more tales of woe heaped upon us by a goiter like yourself! hahaha
D6 - Just wanted to clarify that my post wasn't aimed at anyone in particular, I just wanted to set the record straight in relation to my exchange with XK and the fact that I didn't actually report him. I can, however, appreciate you wanting to stand up for the single women on the site that are more sensitive than myself but I do object to being used as a stick to beat someone with when I wasn't actually offended by what was said to me in the first place. If you want to continue to discuss this matter further then please feel free to PM me as I really don't want to continue to debate this on the thread. As for my man and the fact that he did that round trip to spend about 5 hours with me on my last day in England - well, I was quite overwhelmed as no-one has ever done anything like that for me before! JC
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