Can always write it in your profile then it leaves no grey area
But I agree wanting to meet no one sounds a bit cold just friends is a lot more plesant
have u noticed its only women wanting winks? Cos the guys here find winking too girly.
ANYHOW - I've added FRIENDS as an option now. Also updated the matchmaker alert to reflect this. Existing matchmaker alerts have "No Filter" set. Existing accounts with 'Either' will remain as they are.... people will need to either read this forum or the newsletter.