I have had a bit of a weird experience on here with a couple of men who seem to think that we are all available to instantly reply to messages. I have work conference calls, sometimes early morning and late at night, these because they are with people across the globe.also have other family and friends to keep up with as do we all!
I am not dishonest and would always get back to you when I have a chance. I am sure that other members who have experienced this. Please be patient and don't jump to conclusions, and instantly block and delete. Though if you do this it sort of indicates what you are impatient so maybe no the good friend or partner material ........sorry for the negativity folks. Hugs xx
Thank you both. I am only just getting the hang if the site too, so don't always get the right "bit" straight away bloody klutz with this stuff at times 😂😂😂
They are helping you sort the chaff from the wheat. Otherwise you might waste time and energy only to find out later that they are demanding, impatient, rude etc. A lot too much of this instant messaging implying needing an instant answer. I got a negative comment the other day on Whasapp because I hadn't responded after a minute! There seems to be a whole generation who never put the phone down whatever else they may be doing and it's rubbing off on others. nil bastardum carborundum
I rarely private message women , unless it's help with bikes , I do like to read the events and these sort of posts though , nice to see someone from cannock on here 😊
If these 'gentlemen' are worth your time, then they will understand you have a life and that you will respond when you have the time to do so.
If they are impatient, or become problematic, then basically be open and to the point. Sorry you aren't what I'm looking for in my life. No room in my life for needy, impatient people, move along.
Hard but honest.
Same goes for men having similar issues with women.
That's right lyndsey , we all have busy times , family times , chill out times for ourselves , I sometimes get home from work feed myself and fall asleep on the sofa , I do my best to get out on bike on the evenings , if the weathers right , daughter time at weekends , and maybe a Sunday afternoon ride out 😊
Amazon anyone who has that little patience is going to be a nuisance anyway so don't worry about it. Most folks here are perfectly normal. Actually that's not quite the truth, they are in fact all deeply disturbed 😁 It will be worth getting yourself along to one of the BM do's, assuming anything can actually happen this year.
Just the instant gratification culture we've become accustom to. As for me, since I have non of these sites linked to my phone it could take me a week before I log back in to have a look!!!
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