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Newkid
In: Watford
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Any chance in "seeking" you could have an option for "just friends" as "nobody" means happy the way things are, yet "either" raised the question "Am I gay!"

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 15:07

Newkid
In: Watford
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Rather "Bi" . The answers "NO!" just to clarify.

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 15:18

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Seconded New Kid,also could we please have wink back,as well as nod,bikers tend not to do subtle and peoples intentions need to be more obvious.

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Deleted Member @ 27/03/2009 15:19

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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I changed my "either" for the same reasons (just in case), but I've found that the "nobody" works perfectly well as a substitute.

It's mostly when you have "male" in that box that you get the sad and desperate And they seem surprised that you don't leap at the chance of one night of pash with them. Ho hum. It'd probably only be 5 minutes anyway, then they'd have to rush home to the missus.

I like the nod. Means I can send one to same sex peeps and not be so worried that it'll be misconstrued.

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 15:41

Newkid
In: Watford
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"It's mostly when you have "male" in that box that you get the sad and desperate."

Does that mean I'm moving closer to enlightenment? 5 mins hey, dont know, battery ran out on stop watch, , Duracell, no staying power!!

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 15:52

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Wanna keep the nod as well wannabe,just a greedy boogger

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Deleted Member @ 27/03/2009 15:54

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Ahem,just like to ask,does female in THAT box also mean sad and desperate

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Deleted Member @ 27/03/2009 15:55

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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You know me so well Cassie

Actually NK... I should qualify my previous statement... I've never tested the seeking "female" option... perhaps there are just as many sad and desperate females about?

In the interests of equality and all that

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 15:57

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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Hehe! I meant that when you have "male" there, your inbox gets inundated with folk who're after "no strings fun" or whatever charming little name they choose to give it

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 15:58

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S'pose that means they've got manners at least I once got one stipulating dress code,"think kinky goth"

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Deleted Member @ 27/03/2009 16:01

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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Mind you, it has been known for chaps with "female" in their "seeking" box to be approached by menfolk for similar...

Honestly, if it says female in that box, they're really not "in denial", they really *are* looking for females, not males. Don't waste your time chaps!

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 16:02

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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Not bad... I had one (elsewhere) demanding that I meet with him that very evening, also that I was not "permitted" to wear undies.

Aye, right!

Thank you SOOOOO much for the opportunity. Where have you been all my life?! Be still, my beating heart!

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 16:04

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mmmm,don't think i used quite that phraseology

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Deleted Member @ 27/03/2009 16:05

Newkid
In: Watford
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Glad to see romance isnt dead yet!

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 16:08

Matt
In: Veldhoven
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no to winks - its one or the other, and the nod was overwhelmingly more desired than the wink. Theres only gonna be one, and nod stays. Yes i can add Just Friends to the other option, though it will mean quite a few changes to the matchmaker section etc. I'll do it tonight when i get home.

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Matt @ 27/03/2009 16:10

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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Warms the cockles of your heart eh, NK?

I think my recollection of the specific phraseology I used at the time may be slightly awry Cassie

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 16:11

Newkid
In: Watford
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Cheers very mutchly Matt, sorry if its more work. Would think it adds a definite "no pressure" statement.

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 16:24

Newkid
In: Watford
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Mind you, it would make "either" mean actually "either", hmmm..

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 16:26

Wannabe
In: Dartford
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As Woody Allen (I think) once said: Being bisexual doubles your chance of a date on a Saturday night

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Wannabe @ 27/03/2009 16:30

Newkid
In: Watford
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, Think it may be a problem Matt, all those left as "either" would immediately be presumed as Bi, else they would have chosen "Just friends" and ya cant change them to that unless consulted really, can ya, oops! . If ya got rid of "Either" and replaced it with "Just friends" then you would be "bias", .

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Newkid @ 27/03/2009 17:18

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